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The Happiness Myth: Breaking Free, A New Book By Tracey Archambeault, Challenges The Societal Pressure Of "Seeming Happy" And Teaches Us How To Be Happy

 


In a world obsessed with success, productivity, and the perfect life, a pervasive feeling of emptiness persists. Why, after achieving our biggest goals, do we often feel a hollow sense of “is this all there is?” This is the central question tackled in the powerful new book, "The Happiness Myth: Breaking Free," by acclaimed transformational coach Tracey Archambeault.

Drawing from her years of experience in the entertainment industry and her work guiding clients toward authentic living, Tracey offers a compelling dismantling of the cultural fairy tales we’ve been taught about happiness. She emphasizes that true, lasting peace and joy cannot simply be obtained. The belief that happiness “comes” to us as an object is false; it is not an objectifiable quantity. Instead, it is a process, a state of being that grows from within when we disconnect from unrealistic standards of perfection and the expectations of the external world.

"The inspiration came from years of witnessing people, including myself, chase happiness through perfection, success, and approval, only to end up exhausted and unfulfilled," says Tracey ". I realized that so many of us were living by a script that promised joy but delivered anxiety. The Happiness Myth was born out of my desire to expose that illusion and offer a more compassionate, authentic way to live."

The book systematically debunks the most common happiness myths, beginning with the dangerous trap of external validation. Tracey cites compelling research, including Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky's findings that external circumstances account for only 10% of our overall happiness. Through relatable client stories, like the technology executive who felt empty after becoming CTO and the artist who felt hollow after a successful gallery showing, readers are guided to see their own patterns of seeking approval and achievement as a source of worth.

Tracey wants the readers to feel relieved when they read this book. The reader should know that they are not alone, and that these questions and fears plague everyone else as well. Nothing is "wrong" with them for not being or feeling happy all the time. Tracey explains that understanding that true happiness is not a constant high or a checklist of achievements that must be completed at all times. Happiness is a steady, grounded sort of peace that comes by accepting what you really are.

"The Happiness Myth: Breaking Free" is structured as both an insightful exploration and a practical workbook. The beginning of the chapter tackles a very specific sort of myth:

        The belief that happiness comes from external validation.

        The notion that joy lives in a future milestone ("I'll be happy when...").

        The illusion that perfect conditions are required for contentment.

        The idea is that fulfilling our desires will lead to lasting satisfaction.

When the reader goes beyond the analysis and emotional pep talk, the book turns into a proper hands-on guide to personal change and transformation. It even includes a "Happiness Baseline Questionnaire," practical physical and mental exercises such as "Mapping Your Desire Cycle," and daily practices for gratitude and detachment. Such tools and practices help readers to understand the concepts of the book intellectually and also integrate them into their daily lives, turning small insights into a huge personality change.

Tracey’s favorite quote from the book encapsulates its core message: “ Happiness isn’t something you chase, it’s something you uncover when you stop running.”

"The Happiness Myth: Breaking Free" is now available for purchase on Amazon Kindle. It is an essential read for working professionals feeling burned out, individuals in life transitions, and anyone in the self-help space looking for a deeper, more sustainable shift toward authentic well-being.

About Tracey Archambeault:

Tracey Archambeault is a transformational coach who helps people get unstuck by connecting their heart and their brain. Having mastered the art of wearing a mask in the entertainment industry, she now uses the principles and strategies from her own journey out of attachment and scarcity to help others experience breakthroughs and transform their lives.

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Tracey Archambeault 
Amazon: The Happiness Myth : Breaking Free
Website: https://www.traceyarchambeault.com/about
Email: traceyk.lynn@gmail.com










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